Other People
It's pretty hard not to be a control freak, even when control freakishness is not your tendency. (It's not one of my Main Problems. Not really. I don't have OCD and don't want everything to be My Way. But still.)
Chesray's sister here for a while. To stay she needs money work someplace to live a visa. I don't always have much patience. Why doesn't she if I were in her shoes she could just and I would. We justify ourselves explaining her best interests are what we all want. If she doesn't do what we believe is right proper absolutely necessary she will be broke homeless defeated despairing She won't be able to stay. We who judge who think we know better about many things we who sit somewhere watching we have to learn all of us how to just let go.